Thursday, July 31, 2008 9:36 pm
wat kind of perspective is tt?
Sometimes, i jus cant understand what my parent is thinking..especially my mum..she is always comparing us to her sister's daughter, who is few yrs younger den us & live in Penang..
she compares us to like how at a young age, they are able to do all kinds of housework, n is working now.
but she ignores the fact tt they dropped school so as to start working..
n tt maybe they were
forced to dropp out because of their irresponsible dad who has a extra marital affairs, leading to the divorce?
so wat's so good abt working at such a young age?
i cant think of much except the fact tt you face the reality world earlier..
My mum keep saying why cant me & my sis be like them? y do we have to study so much? gals study so much for wat?
For wat you asked
It's for your own sake and for mine too!
so tt i can care for you when u aged..
so tt you cant retire comfortably..
n for my own dreams..
my own aspiration..
so pls stop comparing us with them..
we are DIFFERENT from them..
and last time is last time, now is now..
what's the norm last time doesnt applies to this century..
especially the phase "last time gals also didnt study so much but still can get married"
tt's the perception tt my grandma has on gals, thinking tt they are useless bum..
but we are not.. Gals can do wat Guys can do too!!
And there's 1 thing tt i seriously disagree with my mum..
you see, my mum encouraged my uncle to let my cousin who is in secondary school to drop out.. this is because since young, his dad had left his mum with 3 children and he is the oldest.. without a proper bringing up, he started to turn stray and pon sch..n grandma was too old to always follow this fellow.. heart-aching, my mum encouraged this decision dunno brought up by who..
DROP-OUT, tt's a serious problem..can it really solve everything?
he is not working at some car mechanics in M'sia..
hai..
jus wanna end by saying:
"Eduacation in this modern era is important to us human beings"